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In a majority of New Jersey marital dissolution proceedings, the parties to the cases have in-laws that may be orbiting around and about. With this in mind, there are strategies to bear in mind when it comes to dealing with in-laws during the course of a New Jersey divorce.

Stay Calm

A divorce is an emotionally taxing experience, and interactions with in-laws can sometimes add to this strain. Despite the heightened pressure and potential for conflict, it’s imperative to keep calm and composed during any discussions or confrontations. Maintaining a cool demeanor can not only prevent the situation from spiraling out of control but also pave the way for more constructive conversations. It might seem challenging at times, but striving for serenity and calm during these interactions can prove immensely beneficial.

Set Boundaries

Amid the tumult of New Jersey divorce proceedings, it’s crucial to establish clear boundaries about what topics are permissible for discussion. These boundaries can encompass a variety of areas, from your personal relationship with your ex-spouse to financial matters or plans for the future. It’s essential to communicate gently but firmly to your in-laws what you’re comfortable discussing and what topics you’d prefer to avoid. By doing so, you can guide conversations in a direction that’s more comfortable for you and potentially sidestep unnecessary conflict. Continue Reading →

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